Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so
complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would
give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women
want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what
is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?
Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is
often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can
understand.
1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that
might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to
recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of
this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he
should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is
this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”
2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not
simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and
the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that
is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict
becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain
those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become
quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely
trying not to lose control.
3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many
progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the
world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal,
it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not
sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as
important as finding one who is beautiful.
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