Most men are not vocal with their feelings and it is hard to know
what’s on their minds. It would be really great if you can read his mind
to know what he’s thinking especially if he’s someone you admire or
like. Fortunately, there are ways to read a man. Although you cannot
read minds, there are tell-tale signs that you can observe if a man
likes you. So what are the signs that he’s into you?
It’s in his eyes. He’s eyes will give him away, as
the saying goes, the eyes are the window to one’s soul. The eyes cannot
lie and they can communicate more than you’ll ever know. The pupils of
our eyes change in size depending on our state of mind and emotions. If a
man for instance feels excited in the presence of the woman he likes or
attracted to, his eyes pupils will dilate or grow larger. If the eyes
pupils constrict or become smaller, it is not a good indication because
the pupils constrict if we see something we didn’t like. This is an
involuntary and uncontrollable response that we cannot hide. If you are
observant, you can discreetly observe his eyes while he’s talking to
you. His gaze will also tell you if he’s into you. Prolonged gaze will
tell you that he’s into you. He likes to keep you in his line of sight
and wants to gaze at you all the time but once you caught him gazing at
you, he will immediately look away. You will see the signs that he’s
into you through his eyes.
You make him nervous. When a guy likes you, your
mere presence makes him nervous. His heart beats rapidly that makes him
nervous when you are around. Most men are in control of their emotions
and they hardly show their feelings but he will find it hard to stay
calm in your presence and you will somehow notice that he’s nervous.
Fidgeting and sweaty palms are some of the signs that he’s really
nervous. This is one of the obvious signs that he’s into you.
He wants to be near you. He literally wants to be
near you in every opportunity. When talking to you he’ll lean towards
you in a subtle way to somehow let you know that he wants to get closer
to you. He wants to touch you in a delicate way maybe like rub his
elbows to you, touch the back of your hands or put his hands on your
shoulder while talking to you. You’ll be surprised that you often run
into him in places where you usually hang out that you’ll think if this
is just accidental. He sticks around and likes to do activities with you
for no particular reason. These are all indications that he wants to be
near you and wants to connect with you. These are all signs that he’s
into you.
He’s listens and very attentive to you. Most men are
not good at listening to women, they may argue but most women feel that
way but if he stops talking about himself and wants to listen to you
then that means something. He listens and interested even in small
details about you. What’s even surprising is that he remembers even the
small unimportant details about you. These are signs that he is
listening and interested in you. These are signs that he’s into you.
He opens up and express his feelings. Unlike women,
most men cannot verbalize their feelings. Women can easily open up, cry
their heart out and express their emotions but men do not usually do
that. Men are not that good in verbally expressing their feelings, they
usually express their feeling in action and not verbally. If they get
angry, instead of verbalizing their anger, they will just punch things
or just keep quiet. But when a man opens up to you and talk about
personal things like for instance, his feelings about the death of his
mother which is something he never opened up to anybody but you, these
are signs that he’s emotionally connected to you, these are signs that
he’s into you. To be able to open up or articulate their emotions is
something that is not normal to most men and if he can do that with you
then you are someone special to him.
Reading someone’s mind may not be possible but his actions or body
language can give him away. If he’s not into you, learn how to make him
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